okay, so my honest advice for this would be to drop the subtleties , and just be direct. all boys are easy at the end of the day and so as a girl trying to get a guy , unless the guy your going after is a douchebag or genuinely just doesn’t want you , then your chances of getting rejected are pretty low.

but also you never want to misread a sign and take it a wrong way and end up embarrassing yourself. so simple things like him saying hi to you or picking something up after you dropped it doesn’t mean he likes you. now if you guys talk almost everyday in person or on the phone , then its pretty safe to assume you can build something off of that. 

now as for the oblivious part, honestly thats just how most guys are some play stupid and some genuinely just are. if you feel this strongly about you guys's energy together that your willing to confess. i honestly would just recommend ..

-Pick a private spot. Avoid public pressure or audience interruptions.

- tell him you would like to talk to him about something important , and ask that he be serious 

- begin your confession , say what you mean instead of hoping he reads between the lines

- allow him to process and provide a response 

- whether the answer he gives is what you wanted or not be sure to keep your composure and walk away from the situation gracefully, and just leave it alone. dont dwell or start to stalk him and keep trying. no mean no always 💕

me this school year (junior year !!)

blog update !!

hii guyss !! im soo sorry my blog hasn’t had an update in dayss  , i unfortunately have a job so instead of getting to bedrot and work on my blog , i have to go to work 💔. also i wanted to redo the look of my blog because i wasnt loving it. but its finished now !! i may change it again but i like how it looks for now and i hope you guys do too !! im gonna add more stuff to the blog real soon but for now i hope you can enjoy the stuff i have up now !

                                            xoxo - love, bri

 my heavily suggested movie recommendations !!

legally blonde

I lovee legally blonde soo much !! elle woods is definitely one of my fav female movie characters. Her being pretty, skinny, blonde, rich, and popular gives her opportunity to be mean, snobby, and entitled. but instead she uses her advantages in life to uplift herself and others. another thing that is very admirable about elle is her drive, despite pretty much everyone doubting her ability to become a lawyer (besides her two iconic friends), she didnt let that stop her from working hard, and she used the hate that she got and turned it into eager momentum to do her best and prove everyone wrong. lastly, what i adore about this movie are all of the friendship moments. like all the girls in elle's sorority house being super excited to hear she passed her exams, elles two best friends being by her side throughout the entire movie, elle helping paulette overcome her fears of retrieving her dog from her ex's home and helping her land a date with the guy she's been wanting, and of course the iconic "bend and snap" scene. i give this movie nothing but 10's, its absolutely perfect and reese witherspoon did her thinggg.

pitch perfect

This is one of my absolute favorite movies, another that ive just gotta give a 10/10. from the songs to the comedy to all of the quotable line "Horizontal running."—Fat Amy, this movie is just absolutely amazing. like if there was a hall of fame for most iconic and memorable movies, i would definitely vouch for this movie to be included.

another cinderella story

Omfg !! words cant even describe how much i love this movie. this has been one of my fav movies since i was about 6. i know all the songs, and the dances, and i could recite this movie word for word. joey parkey was HIM, and i love me some drew seely. this movie is not only hilarious, but plotwise and soundtrack wise and cast wise, its one of my favorites of all the Cinderella stories. (even though the first one had chad micheal murry 😛). still this movie gets a 10 from me.